Many of us go selfish in many instances. Many a times we do not think about the person who is involved in the situation at that particular point of time. We think our problem is heavier and we do not need to think about others.

Some where we are all social animals and need to accommodate people. Think for instance if GOD can not accommodate us and he only thinks about himself and forgets about his own creation (Mankind) can we survive on our own. We all need one another. We need each others support and thoughts to live in this world. We need some one to patch our back which assures us a lot and provides us a good strength.

When we are sick and not able to do our daily routines no one would want to just be on their own, we feel what if my mother or some one would have been next to me asking to eat this and do that to get rid of the pain that I am undergoing right now. This is what happens to each one of some only difference is that some expresses them openly and some keeps it with them and burdens.

I am not trying to tell anyone not to be selfish; winning a person is not so easy. Loosing anyone or anything is very easy task. We all have our own thoughts and ideas about each situation. We act accordingly but if we give some time to ourselves in understanding that we are not making the effort to make us think that we live for one another and sometimes yes we live for ourselves. When we are in a dire need of a person we fall back on few people whom we trust and that person is not willing to help us (if in case) it is so painful to digest the fact that we have no one for help.

Believe in ‘Almighty’ who is always welcoming you and he has his hands open for each one of us anytime. Let us seek him and worship him for what he is in our lives

MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING ….
All set for the lavish wedding of ‘My Best Friend’. I am very excited and very happy to tell you all that I am longing to see her in her Bridal wear. She is undergoing lot of tensions as she is doing everything on her own. She is very sweet girl.
On every step initiated in life we feel the excitement and nervousness to experience the same. Small or big, all achievements which come our way are much deserved though.
Especially in achieving a life time friendship and bond. Again initiating a new step in life with full excitement and equal nervousness by getting bonded with some one’s life, accepting them as partner and everything for the rest of the life .
We dream a lot, we pray with faith within us to move the same in our lives. Ultimately life is already decided by the creator (This is the ground reality and we need to accept this to move on..)
"To think it is easy. To act it is difficult. To act as one thinks is the most difficult" Johann wolfgang Von Goeth
I hope that it will not be that difficult for her to act as her partner thinks as they were both very good friends turned to lovers and becoming partners now.
I am done with my shopping and all set to see the wedding and pray her that things go fine in all ways and my best wishes are always with her .
I am hoping that things will be fine and she will be very happy in her entire life , with out any troubles and hurdles.
With all my prayers for the entire life

HOW TO DEAL WITH THINGS….

This is an art of life where very few people deal it sensible and they act very normal. There are no set formulae or any instructions as it differs from person to person and primarily it is dependant on the situation (Entirely).
Only one universal tip is that when the other person is in bad temper stay silent which really helps us. If both start bombarding the end result is fight and Blood pressure and implications and so on and so forth…
Being silent is not as easy as anyone tells. We are all human beings and having loads of ego and self-respect. But still advisable to stay cool and silent. With which we do not loose rather we gain a lot.
One thing is for sure when we do things we always think that what ever we are doing is right in our own way and try reasoning the situation.
I feel at times we also should take inputs from people around who observe you from time to time and mould a bit try changing for good.
There must have been situation where you are totally correct but then you are targeted for no reason but with this you can not prove the whole world that what ever you have done is correct. Take it from me if you accept or not if there is one person who say that you are good and very nice, there are three people who say you are not good.
If some one makes an opinion on you and try avoiding you, it is always better for us that we do not need to scratch our head in thinking and analyzing about that person. Well in modern times we need to be good with everyone around for one that that you never know what will go wrong if you spoil the relationship .
For me I would say do not end up anything with bitter memories rather try solving it or leave it to time as I feel time is the best teacher for us all….