HAVING OWN VALUES

We set our mind up to some standard and we think every one should follow those thing which is ofcourse impossible . I would rather put my things this way one should have his/her own standards pertaining to their own life .One should not think that everyone arround should follow those .

I have seen one person he has his own values he says he would want his life like this an he says iam ready to phase difficulties i donot know whether to say he has his own way of life but one thing is for sure one should not impose things on some one else .

We can not blame anyone they have their own ways of living life nothing can stop an individual from doing so. At times we might be wrong in our way of thinking but ultimately one thing will happen what GOD wants .

I did not get one thing these days having our own values is fine but many of us has changed our mindset we have moulded ourattitude because of some reason we have our own reasons for everything .Today X does a mistake he has a reason he/ she does not want to do anything wrong it might be correct in his thought but it might not be in your so thats how it works .

DO NOT BLAME ANY ONE FOR ANYTHING BLAME YOURSELF FOR EVERYTHING

MISTAKES

What are mistakes? We think something and we set our own standards and we assume a thing if they go little here and there we think it is mistake.

One thing what ever i think might be correct in my own way but might look little awkward for the person next to me who knows me (I mean he is very close friend in spite of that).

So here mistake has our own meaning and our own definitions .One wants to do this other wants to do that finally only one thing will happen what GOD wants.

We are all human beings we do mistakes but we have to remember ultimately we will be judged by out heavenly father who has given us life freedom everything .In scriptures it is written if you measure a person with a scale you please do not forget you will also be measured in the same way (these are not the exact words) .When ever i do something abnormal i also feel the same.
Small things sometimes irritate me .I am with lots of temper and i react fast to things .I think a lot these are negatives of me.

Last but not the least don’t be judgmental this is for me also ......

MERRY CHRISTMAS

WHAT AM I
We meet many people in life some leaves mark in life which we can not forget in life time . There are many people who gave us so much of love which was precious than diamond.

Did we ever think anytime that can we borrow or buy from somewhere the unconditional love and caring that we got from people?

We forget many a times how caring and loving our parents were when we have bitter things , we always think people do mistakes no one is perfect all such did we ever think why can’t we do something for them in return . They have always given us they never expected anything from us .Likewise friends have also done so much .I always given more importance to both in life after GOD family and after them my friends who never ever expected anything from me .

I have very few friends who are no comparison to anyone they are like my own we were not born together but we met in life it is my accident for me but i always felt it is God’s will that i had to meet these people . No one is perfect in all the ways we learn from our mistakes. Time is the best teacher we might not speak to all properly some people just love you seeing some quality in you we might not have done anything for them but still they love you for what ever little you have done .

If i see behind i have more hatredness for many people but till today they love me. There was a person who just cried for me there are many people who miss me today I am really thankful to GOD for giving me such wonderful people . This is too late to repent for what ever had happens that’s history for me but not for them. I have even stopped speaking to them for my own reasons but still they love me. I analyze myself why I am like this what ego problems I have why I am not good to all. I tell myself all the time that I am bad but i never took initiative to change or correct what is wrong with in me which is making me stand in such position today. I pray for them that’s all I might not see them anymore in life but wants them to be happy all the time. I will get punishment from GOD for all these .......Pray for me

BEING ALONE
We came in to this alone but we Indians we are emotional we have our own values in life we stick to our own things . If we analyze we are psychologically balanced we don’t have many problems are people in west have got. So it is one way very helpful that we grow we stand we try analyzing things. But we are very emotionally attached to families and friends.

I was just thinking about myself when i had a friend i used to think i have some one with me when the day came she was leaving me i cried a lot but thank GOD i was with family that time i mean i was not alone . When i came back to this place first day all alone in the room whenever i saw her bed it had recollected me the memories we had shared with her....

I used to think being alone is not that difficult. Believe me it is very difficult we need people. After experiencing this i have decided one should have a partner in life all the time it is not a thing that you got to work for him and his family it is just that he is for you and you are for her. This place made me realize the fact that one can not live all alone even if he / she has job money and all facilities .I join my hands to pray for all those who are all alone leaving their family friends back in India . It is very difficult to be alone but one thing GOD ALMIGHTY is always with us (I am not contradicting) but still be strong come back enjoy in our country with our people it is nice to be with our own people in our land........