HARD TO SAY GOOD BYE ...

Director nursing services here is leaving tomorrow early morning. I went to meet her now, it is really sad she was very close to me. She was almost like my friend who used to mingle so well in that age too .
We have done shopping together many times I love being with her, normally we say old aged ladies are hard to manage but she is not like that, very friendly she is not that old aged kinds. She calls me darling darling all the time. She was with me for the past one year 2 months all the time she used to just come for any help.

I had taught her computers for some time she is leaving now. Life is all miracles we meet many some become close but we need to leave them all some time or the other. I wish and pray for her so that she should be healthy and she should reach home safe.
LOVE U MAM MISS U...

FRIENDSHIP....

A relationship which starts with trust. We can not say everyone is my friend, I have seen people saying everyone my friend my friend . If they are friends then what happens every one on earth is a friend for us na .
Good that we are all friends in life we have different categories like relatives family friends and family friends ... the list goes on and on .. Take a second think you are in a dire need of a person whom do you bow upon if u really want to, he is your true friend . I am not telling you that only person who helps you is your friend but I am trying to tell you that u trust him the most and he value you the most.
In relationships I have seen one will be most expressive and one might not even say even he/she feels that but only that right person can understand their feelings. Friendship is very precious we need to treasure it when we have it with us . I have seen set of people till now. I can dare to say few are my best they love me the same but one thing again and again remember do not expect anything from anyone just give what ever you can . When we expect we might get disappointed at times.
I would want to tell one thing here I have got few friends whom I can really relay till my death but I am the same for them too. I must have hurt them , they must have hurt me but we understand more when we hurt each other. That trust and understanding is more important than anything be the same all the time. Remember friends when u are happy and sad too and remember when u pray every morning they need your prayers..
LOVE THEM AND RESPECT THEM FOR WHAT THEY ARE...

MARRIAGE -A BONDING

I was just thinking about this today, it is a bonding which brings in two different people together and makes them start a life all together new. Many must have told me many versions of marriage the life after marriage will be different for everyone. As we experience things some face many obstricles and some really loose things and they almost scarifies things for the other person.

Like any other relationship this is also one which makes two people of different ideas and thoughts together so that they live for each other the rest of life happy. We have different customs to celebrate a wedding but all customs we make the bride and groom make an oath in front of the lord and gathering that they will lead the life for each other.

When we have bitterness sorrow when we have broken heart the other person will always remain there with us. Some people really enjoy the company of each other. Some just live for the family and because of any reasons. If we look at the positive end of it is after some age we will realize if not today that GOD had purpose in making life a success so only he made man and women together the saying we all know "Marriages are made in heaven " why is it like that he decides who will meet whom for the rest of life.

The man and women needs to control each other support each other and live the life happy. When I attend the wedding I observed many things where in more concentration is given to a girl and the moment she comes in we get up and sing a song for her the pastor goes and brings her she have flower girls around her, if we think why so, she is leaving her life and coming in to a man's house forever she has to make up her mind to live with a different person for the rest leaving family where she had her small dreams and wishes coming true all the time.. I really do not know might be for that reason girl is given importance.

Girl needs to do many things , first of all she needs to understand the new atmosphere where she has come to live in and all the more important her husband who is everything for her and she needs to be responsible and always she should welcome things . Many instances I have seen girl is being blamed when some dispute comes or anything happens , there are instances where such issues happens but life is not so easy mentalities frequencies might not match but one needs to understand others in many ways . A lady can make the family and break it also ... So it is all for girls who so ever is reading and specially for

Dr.Tripti make your life memorable one hope and pray you have a very beautiful and ideal life with Dr. Satosh . MAY THE BLESSINGS BE AROUND YOU AS YOU ARE NOW AT THE WEDDING CERMONY....

JASMINE
The moment we hear about this the smell just touches , This is a seasonal flower which is very precious for many people, I have seen ladies dying for this flower , I suddenly one day found a tree full of flowers and plucked daily and used to keep in my room as natural smell will be there all through the evening . U do not believe how many ladies in my room asked me where do you get this from , till today i did not reveal them where I am getting this ....

People just need that info there won't be tree, forget about flower. I know for sure, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ... U know some challenged me also that they would find where is this tree and from where iam getting but poor thing they could not ...

I donot like to pluck flowers but the only flower i pluck is jasmine because we need to pluck it and pluck the leaves as well during the starting of the season , used to do a bit gardening with mamma so know few things...

Small description for those who does not know about this flower and what is all about.....

It is a small white flower with a pleasant fragrance. Jasmine is used as a decorative flower for all occasions. Indian women wear this flower on their hair. It is weaved in length with the help of a thread. In North India, some communities use this flower to cover the face of the bridegrooms. Jasmine is grown and marketed in various parts of the country

SELFISHNESS................

BIRTHDAY BABY.......

Tomorrow that’s 06.06.06 is my sweet little sisters birthday she is in a city which is prospering in all the ways “Hyderabad”. She is lovely sister we are not really sisters, I have never seen her, met her. Hope I can in future, she has a very sweet name TEJA.BOLLU. She has successfully finished her schooling and entered in to +1 with lots of enthusiasm and hopes. I know very few things about her but I can tell she is one who has got guts to challenge and make things happen. I wish u all the best TEJA as you have promised something with papa , hope and pray that should come true and keep up the name BOLLU always .... Only small prayer to my heavenly father is to supply her all the wisdom and be with her as she is going to make her future now. Support her help her in all the ways possible so that she makes up all her hopes and dreams of her’s to come true . Bless her abundantly oh lord i give u all the glory as u are blessing her. Bless the family oh lord be there with them all the time give them everything they need Amen. Here comes your birthday cake directly from cooper’s (one of the best bakers of Dhaka). Take it and be blessed all the time. It is your day make it memorable. LOVE U..... WITH LOTS OF WISHES SHEELA. BOLLU

Note: count how many roses are there it should be 16 if less ask ur dad to add more

IMPORTANT TO REALIZE THINGS AT RIGHT TIME....


In life it becomes so important to realize one's mistakes. But what if time has passed away. We may do things in a hard way but we never realize things many a times our stubbornness stops us. I had a classmate of mine who was my internship mate and became colleague after coming here.

She used to love me so much, which I never used to care I had hurt her so many times but when I was in Delhi one night I thing around 8:00PM she had cried so bitterly for me just because I was not talking to her I did not care that time also then we left that place I mean Delhi. We both got chance to work together again I was not talking as usual but here and there I had a reason why I did not talk with her.

I can tell one thing probably I did not realize that it is not a big issue, nor I failed to make her realize that it is nothing. Times has passed away she was here with me one year. I will never see her anymore but I felt bad for the first time. She made an attempt to speak twice before leaving I was very stubborn I am hurt. I can not tell she is bad, she is not bad she had her prayers for me always. I wish her beautiful future...

As we swim this life we face lot more but ask Almighty for help donot harm anyone donot even think of harming someone .

I want you all to realize we are human beings we live very short period of time leave stubbornness’ and forgive others so that our sins will be forgiven. I need to say a word that I forgive her and i will continue to pray for her future. May GOD give her all the happiness in life and give her a good JOB which is more needed now GOD will prosper you ...TAKE CARE... BE SAFE

STUPIDITY LEADS TO PROBLEMS...

All of a sudden something happens which will mess up whole thing. Gets in the distance between people which was never there. I have good friends who are very nice but I really do not know how to treasure what I have I feel.

Mistakes are mistakes but I have one only question for GOD "You do not want to forgive me GOD" I hope things come back the same I can not imagine anything of that sort. I can not reveal the exact incidence happen here but I seek only your prayer support who so ever happens to read the blog.

We all do mistakes but repeating mistakes is painful, I do understand but what happens is life is so unpredictable we never know things could really change a person and take that person away from one who always used to claim to be BEST FRIEND. So sad I do not have any words to say now.

I would want to make one point very clear please realize mistakes and try not to repeat those, this message is for me also which is one I need to remember all the time till I live here . I do not know what’s going to happen but Almighty will never leave us alone that is for sure so he will take care of the situation and he will make people realize things. Hope that happens soon ... Keep smiling have a nice time...