Monday, June 12, 2006

MARRIAGE -A BONDING

I was just thinking about this today, it is a bonding which brings in two different people together and makes them start a life all together new. Many must have told me many versions of marriage the life after marriage will be different for everyone. As we experience things some face many obstricles and some really loose things and they almost scarifies things for the other person.

Like any other relationship this is also one which makes two people of different ideas and thoughts together so that they live for each other the rest of life happy. We have different customs to celebrate a wedding but all customs we make the bride and groom make an oath in front of the lord and gathering that they will lead the life for each other.

When we have bitterness sorrow when we have broken heart the other person will always remain there with us. Some people really enjoy the company of each other. Some just live for the family and because of any reasons. If we look at the positive end of it is after some age we will realize if not today that GOD had purpose in making life a success so only he made man and women together the saying we all know "Marriages are made in heaven " why is it like that he decides who will meet whom for the rest of life.

The man and women needs to control each other support each other and live the life happy. When I attend the wedding I observed many things where in more concentration is given to a girl and the moment she comes in we get up and sing a song for her the pastor goes and brings her she have flower girls around her, if we think why so, she is leaving her life and coming in to a man's house forever she has to make up her mind to live with a different person for the rest leaving family where she had her small dreams and wishes coming true all the time.. I really do not know might be for that reason girl is given importance.

Girl needs to do many things , first of all she needs to understand the new atmosphere where she has come to live in and all the more important her husband who is everything for her and she needs to be responsible and always she should welcome things . Many instances I have seen girl is being blamed when some dispute comes or anything happens , there are instances where such issues happens but life is not so easy mentalities frequencies might not match but one needs to understand others in many ways . A lady can make the family and break it also ... So it is all for girls who so ever is reading and specially for
Dr.Tripti make your life memorable one hope and pray you have a very beautiful and ideal life with Dr. Satosh . MAY THE BLESSINGS BE AROUND YOU AS YOU ARE NOW AT THE WEDDING CERMONY....

2 comments:

anup.777 said...

wishing them a very Happy Married Life! :)

Marriage is all about commitment, trust and sacrifice .... something really difficult ... its among the most imp decisions of this life ...

and while traditionally women wld leave their homes and go live with inlaws ... today the newly weds move into a new house to make their own home ... so both husband as well as wife make equal amt of sacrifice ....

SUN said...

This is one of the fantastic marriage greetings' message, I read in my life. I admire the way you present with the appropriate photographs.

Keep it up....

Cheers,
Sun.