We all have been carrying our own umbrella of ego. My friend always uses the word I will buy you a ego bag in situations where he feels i am being self protective. There is a brand by name ego in bags. I am sure you are all aware. People define the ego as neutral energy, but ego is used by people in different incidents as they want. This is modern time issue which every house or a relationship faces.
All along we were living in a patriotic life style. These days the tread has changed and the upbringing of a girl child is so different from olden times.
There is a misconception between self confidence and inflated self. The arguments can be healthy many a times not on every silly topic.
Giving up will some times help to strengthen the personal trust. We can bend to keep the relationship going in a direction which we want. Ultimately depends on the both individuals who are involved in relationship. It is easy to judge people from outside and give our own perception about the relationship.
One thing is for sure and I personally believe is we should self introspect before jumping into conclusions.
It should be give a chance always try to analyze if every one are hurt because of our attitude and behavior that helps us to scale if we went wrong any where.
Lets live happy with flying colors….. Trust should not break , it should grow and grow strong.
3 comments:
Hey Sheela !
I read your other blog. Hope your work is going fine.
I read about 'bending' .. but you know what .. bend only till a certain extent ... if you keep bending, there will be 'N' no. of people who think they too can lord over you ... and once you let that happen, it is very bad.
I am myself fighting things like this ... so I said the above ... Give people a chance to miss you, more than anything !
Hi Deepa,
What you said is very true in all ways. But some times we also need to adjust right. I feel it is so dependant on the situation and the person dealing that.
Thanks for your words they mean a lot.
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