There are so many things one wants to convey to the other person but many a times He/ She can not express things as too much of anything is bad.

There is a limit to everything we do in life. There should be said lines where one can draw for every instance. We ignore certain things in life for specific reasons but that ignorance will not fade the memory. Some where back of our minds we still have but we always think that we have ignored that instance.

There are some points I want to convey in general …. They are … Here they go ….

1. Do not neglect any one for any reason
2. Do not under / over estimate any one for any purpose / reason
3. Do not look at a person with a wrong intuition in your mind about that person
4. Never portray your self negative for anyone
5. Do not avoid a person for any odd reason
6. Never measure the person in front of you. Remember that we will also be measured with the same scale
7. Treasure what you have now
8. Have always positive thoughts to larger extent
9. Remember that there is solution behind every problem, but remember that time is the only teacher and it is the only decision maker which leads us in that way…
10. Try to avoid giving false reasons for any thing

These are some points which we always need to remember and practice also…. World around is very small, we might need people for what ever reason. But remember this when we need the most there will not be a single person except your loved one’s and your Almighty who is your creator and always watching you and helping you ..

WHAT ARE WE UP TO…

When we analyze ourselves we have lead a life where we were very selfish many a times. We always try to make ourselves comfortable rather than looking at others . If there is a small thing which gives us discomfort we think so many ways to avoid that small thing.

What are we gaining in this life being so? One instance I was sharing with one of my cousin about my life that I want to just live a life adopting a KID so that he/she will also have a good and comfortable life with me. He suddenly replied me hay that’s nice to know that you have Christianity in you. I am not talking about any religion or about a race here. We all have some values in life and we all have some customs and traditions which we are carrying with us. All of a sudden we can not be so different for any reason.

My only message through this is we have people around who are really having tough time to lead their daily life forget comfortable at least one day if all think and start doing something for them would really help them .

But one more question is where we go to help them send money to charitable trusts and old age. I heard they misuse the money then HOW we can help this country in terms of growth and development? Please think about this … I will also do the same we will collectively do something for our country which has given us an identity in this life and in this world……

WHERE ARE WE HEADDING?

Life is such a mess; we do not know where we are leading to words...

There was an instance where so called my own friend had wonderful sentences for me. I can not forget those sentences. We always saw a girl as a precious one GOD blessed women with lot of patience and he gave them lot of responsibilities to handle.

In this era we always see and measure a girl from top to bottom. A guy can talk anything he wants but girl can not do the same what a sad thing .

If we look at something when we point out at some one we forget that three more figures are pointing at ourselves.

A guy wants a virgin girl to marry but the same can not be the other side. Recently one of my best friends told me that ‘I encourage only time pass girls’. I was shocked to hear that from him. There were many more shocking things I had to hear.

Truth lies some where we are at the end of the world and what ever is said is coming true in every aspect. We are in our last days in this world …….

We might think it is unimaginable to live in these circumstances but we need to be bold and live our lives .Final judgment is very near so be cautious with our actions and words . We live very short there is eternal life ahead ….. Be happy and stop judging others for any reason.

Did any time this struck our mind? We just live as if time is pushing us. We do things which we like and sometimes we are forced to do things which we don’t like also.

When we sit calm also the thinking process is still on. It is never ending; we keep thinking and burdening ourselves for no reason.

The mirror inside you reflects your face and mind to do what you have to do, but still we hide ourselves somewhere and try portraying as if we are different .

Why do you like few people it is all that frequency which matches with them. We feel they are meant for something. When you feel so you try giving them lot of importance to that person .In that run we forget that we are loosing our own-ness just to win that person.

Many instances we love a person more than required, give them lot of attention, which some really enjoy not giving obviously getting attention.

All these are never ending it just comes as a wave which wipes what ever is written in the sand on the beach. Life is the same what ever is meant for us is decided long back , rest all is just the beautiful lines which we are writing with lot of patients on the sand knowing that waves will wipe away how ever beautiful it might be. That’s the ultimatum accept what is meant for you and go on in life ….. Life ahead is so beautiful provided if you want to make that beautiful.

Analyze yourself what you are? And do not hide your self. Your beauty lies there when you know what you are? Many a times we do not know what we are that when , we end up in mess.

REJECTION...

The word itself is so painful. We never want this to happen in our lives any time for any reason. We all develop feelings with in and sometimes people suppress their feelings as they are always worried of the outcome might be ‘Rejection’.

When we get rejected we take out anger in many different ways. Life just goes on with out that person also, we must have enjoyed the moments as a day dreamers in life. Some give lot of importance to family values and their past life which has a greater impact which makes the person a negative as whole. He /She want to take out the anger just because they had that bitter memories in their past life.

For the other person the perception might be very wrong. I have seen a person and experienced that he is totally different just because a girl ditched him. He is trying to always co-relate that with every girl he is meeting. Now he has a negative impact on every girl. He feels he can not trust any girl anymore. I have seen the feelings. I felt really bad why at all this happen to him but the answer to that is. ………………..

“Man proposes and GOD disposes”

God wants to teach us something .He chose this way to teach him . But one message to him from my side is. The time is going to change what ever he had decided before was just not meant for him so only it just left him in the sadness and bitter thoughts. Please start thinking positive it wipes away all the negative feelings form your mind there is still greener pasture for you. God will save you for what ever you are and he will alone guide you in his own way.