EXPERIENCE IN KITCHEN ...

I started liking cooking. I know that’s an art and experience makes man perfect. Yesterday was a day where I got up at 9:00Am from my bed and slept in front of TV till 12:00PM and all of a sudden my stomach started giving alarm. Went in to kitchen my roomy was preparing idly for her, I saw here and there and suddenly potato recipe stuck me which one of my Tamilian friend had taught me then called her also to have lunch with me but went out to get veggies and by 3:00PM all set to eat . I did not know what went in to my little brain , I saw that Tamil girl preparing one day pappu vada I also kept things ready before going out only . After lunch that girl (Tamilian) went upstairs I was in front of TV as I had slept more than needed with all Body pains I was ready to cook VADA it sadly turned out to be DIET VADA . No worries second time I can prepare well . Was crispy and in good shapes but mirchy less salt less (precautionary good to eat less salt and less mirchy na ) Then comes later part dinner my Tamilian friend kept dosa maav ready but I asked her teach me and I will prepare so she taught me I prepared DOSA wow .. Can not imagine and we both had DOSA .. Today one more dish Idly tonight lovely I will become perfect south Indian cook by end of the session.. Lets hope for the best..

It is good to prepare instead of eating all the time... Do experiment u might fail once but iam sure that failure will make us strong ....

LIFE WITH HOPE

We want so many things in life, we presume things to happen for us some one kneels down and pray some one believes in hard work some one goes to priest and asks him to pray for us... People have their own ways of looking with hope.
We must have met so many good people while leaving them we must have had bitterness too no doubt I am sure we all have forgot after couple of hours and that’s how life runs we are busy with our own day to day activities . Nothing will stop for us we have to run with the time and destiny takes us to the end.

I was just analyzing on the day my friend had left when she was there i did not knew how important she was when she is not there today i feel i miss her a lot . I do not know why all these happen with me only. I am sure not only me anyone if u ask they might have had such incidences to share with. Life is all controlled my our precious lord believe in him trust him he will lead our lives smooth.. Have a blessed week ahead...

DO NOT LOOSE THE HOPE U HAVE IN LIFE

ME VERY STRONG

I never realized that I am the strongest , my tears did not fall something is meant other wise i can not act this way somwehere something went wrong . I normally cry a lot in many instances but surprising today I am totally different , my friend had left me she is there with me for the past 4 years . She is very elderly personality very caring , very curious , with very less patience , very emotional , very much positive about life, very forth coming in many things , very loving last but not the least she was everything for me once......

The whole week went on with parties one day Italian one day Mexican one day Indian last day Chinese . Was good enjoyed but all the more last night discussion and irritating her was too good . Her flight was at 8:10AM but had to report 2 hours before as it is so called international , she knocked my door tuck tuck tuck tuck at 5:19AM i had out my alarm at 5:50AM poor thing by then i was dumped in a car with her luggage . Came back i did not feel much difference but walking alone to office was bit different as now a days i always used to come with her ...

Hope and pray she reaches home safe with all the luggage as though there is nothing left in this green land .... HERE I HAVE PUT HER PHOTOGRAPH SHE IS THE ONE I WAS TALKING ABOUT...

LAST BREATH............

Life is short as I emphasized in many of my blogs, life is really so short. I saw a case today 9 years old kido having congenital heart disease and was on penicillin for the past 5 years. He was to get operated for the disease he has. Poor chap he must have never ever thought today would be last breath for him....

Sadly he left us all at 1:25PM. Saw poor father crying so bitterly, he must have had so many dreams on his kido. He was broken so badly he came to meet my boss. He was crying so badly. I can not explain but his son is no more ... Imagine life has become so hard for him loss of son...

Tomorrow there is investigation team meeting in board room to discuss the case lets see, kept the fingers crossed, may his soul rest in peace...

YESTERDAY'S DISCUSSION

It was a critical case according to my colleague. He is an old man who has memory loss and many more complications. There was a problem in radiology department as she is responsible for the department she was there suddenly she got a call of CT technician that patient who is undergoing diagnosis got attack (he is also a stroke patient it seems).

The whole issue she explained me first of all the CT angiography needs an Anaesthetist technician and a radiologist finally to analyze, CT nurse is permanent there. She asked coordinator to send an Anaesthetist as this was a cold case and it is IP case too. This patient was under orthopeadician. He was shifted to CT machine to take up CT cerebral angioplasty, as he was lying my colleague went to see him before the procedure as she was there in the department with an issue. It seems he asked her, where were u all these days not seen now a days? U are looking good in this dress he said.

After sometime an Anaesthesia registrar came grumbling to the CT angioplasty room to give local Anaesthesia to the case. He saw the case and read the reports I mean case sheet and others , later he contacted primary treating consultant and then Anaesthesia coordinator also . He started giving anesthesia, then after that contrast was given the CT cerebral angioplasty procedure started. He (anesthesia registrar) denied to come out of CT room knowing the fact that the rays are bad normal body should not get exposed . To prevent this, they will be given lead aprons . He did not wear anything but he stood inside only. To every one's shocking monitor was black after 10 min.
Patient had cardiac arrest, central announcing system is not working yet courtesy which ever department did not develop that. Crash cart and other things were there in place. My colleague suddenly called emergency coordinator he is just next to radiology department he came running with his team and resuscitated the patient. Mean while she called cardiologist also he also came and saw the patient .But what can the poor well educated guys (patient's sons) can do patient is fully paralyzed now. He is in surgical ICU now 24 hours of observation. Can not really fill the incident report also on anyone. Patient when he was taken to emergency for stabilizing, my colleague met the whole team and said few sweet words but she says I doubt one person but can not say anything as the patient is alive but fully paralyzed.

Big burden for the family to see a person who can not do anything but he is on bed alive , he might get recover with the physiotherapy support but chances are very less according to doctors . Damage has been done no one can rewind anything, guilt is always there. My colleague today morning says I could not sleep properly I dreamt about old man , she wanted to see him in SICU today morning hope he will be fine and goes back home after fully recovering . ‘N’ number of complicated cases come now a days, people working there need to be strong enough this is the message for my colleague , we can not really say who's fault it is but it is done ....

PRAY THAT THE PATIENT RECOVERS SOON...

BUSY!!!!
Once upon a time a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant, and he got it. His salary was really good and so were the working conditions. For that reason, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.

His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he was supposed to fell the trees.

The first day, the woodcutter brought 15 trees.

"Congratulations," the boss said. "Carry on with your work!"

Highly motivated by the words of his boss, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he only could bring 10 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he was only able to bring 7 trees. Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.

"I must be losing my strength", the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could notunderstand what was going on.

"When was the last time you sharpened your axe?" the boss asked.

"Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees..."

Most of us NEVER update our skills. We think that whatever we have learned is very much enough. But good is not goodwhen better is expected. Sharpening our skills from time to time is the key to success

After seeing this one should realise that knowledge is vast and it is like ocean no one is master in all the subjects ... have a great professional life .

A LETTER FOR ME WHICH IS A LESION

Sheela, life is always filled with questions at very stage for example some of the most common questions. Why do sad people attract sad incidences in life? Why do happy people attract happy situations in life? Why do some people are prone to divorce? Why do some people always get a wrong job and wrong boss?
Depending on what state of being we are, we attract situations. We have to focus on heightening our state of being rather than changing situations in life. If our state of being is low, then the external situation, even though sacred, will be pulled down to our level of being. For example, a poor man in a palace will make the palace into a gutter.
A Man, while walking in the desert saw a group of people riding horses. He thought they were robbers and started running. They turned out to be travelers. Seeing the Man started running, the travelers thought he was in trouble-so they started going towards him. Now the Man was convinced they were after him and he ran into a graveyard – the travelers followed him there. The tired Man lay down on one of the coffins. Then he realized they were not robbers but travelers. They asked him: "Why are you here?" "I m here because of you and you are here because of me" answered the Man. "This is the law of karma". In other words, we attract situations in life. So don't look at people in the same way with same intentions formed by one incidence.
We often find ourselves in such situations aligned to our state of being. If our consciousness is not committed to transformation, then we will not grow wiser from situations, but complain and grumble, expecting the situation to be different. According to yogic shastras, there are different levels of being - seven chakras or centers. Some operate from the lowest center and such people attract similar situations. Nature context is that humans evolve from lower to higher centers. This happens when you learn and grow. If one does not do that then the situation goes on repeating itself until we learn and grow.
How can we change one state of being? There are two types of growth: horizontal and vertical growth. Horizontal growth means more money, name and fame. People's yardstick of growth is more in the horizontal domain. People come and tell me, "I have grown" - which means five years back I earned 1 million a year and now I earn 10 million a year. This type of growth is not fulfilling. The second type of growth is vertical growth. The yardstick for this is: Five years back how calm was I, and how calm am i now? The growth is measured in its depth and not in its width. The more one grows in love, kindness and compassion, the more one is truly growing. Such a growth is fulfilling. Growth happening in the vertical dimension changes one's state of being. Today most of the young girls or woman are just looking at the horizontal growth, that’s the reason many fail to live happily despite of all the essential factors needed for this materialistic world.
Once a king sought to resolve a dispute between two of his ministers who wanted to marry the same woman. He told both of them to walk on a rope and whoever did so successfully, would win the hand of the woman. One minister spent a sleepless night worrying how he would be able to walk the tightrope. The other minister was very relaxed - he felt there was no point in getting agitated when death was imminent anyway. The minister who kept his cool emerged the winner, walking effortlessly on the rope. Asked to share his secret, he only said, "I don’t know". To walk on the rope without losing one's balance involves being relaxed, balanced and being in the present. The same qualities are vital for the success of a marriage, too. In order to grow vertically, one has to cultivate the art of relaxation, be balanced, and stay aware in the present. Life is fulfilling only with such a type of growth. Happiness and joy flower forth in this state of consciousness.

MY SWEET LOVES BIRTHDAY

I got a call last night saying today is my cute friends birthday she is very small kido. Very sweet she is so nice. She comes from a city for IT hub one day madam will become a great person there. She is in 5th standard now. Very sweet she came to chat once with me. She has all good things. She loves chocolates the most, like me. She has one best friend, like me. I have never seen her nor met but she became an important person to me. She is very chaalooo. Lets all say a word of prayer for her future.

Today her uncle will bring her chocolate cake and she will cut it, sad thing I am not there with her. She must be wearing a new top today. But one good thing I had sent her chocolates I am very happy for that, I did not knew that it was her birthday but I have sent her. Wow I thank GOD and specially Dr. Conway for giving those things to her safely.

My sweet heart my heartiest wishes to you and all my prayers are with you for your brightest future...

Love you so much

NOTE: Apologies for not sending you the actual cake so only i have kept a dummy cake here thats please forgive me kanna

LOVE OF OUR FATHER ........

I feel many a times i am very possesive about many things . I donot know why but feel that's mine no one should touch mine . It is mine , he/she is my friend .. Here i came across a wonderful incidence where i feel i should share with you all .

There once was a man named George Thomas, pastor in a small New England town. One Easter Sunday morning he came to the Church carrying a rusty, bent, old bird cage, and set it by the pulpit. Eyebrows were raised and, as if in response, Pastor Thomas began to speak..."I was walking through town yesterday when I saw a young boy coming toward me swinging thisbird cage. On the bottom of the cage were three little wild birds, shivering with cold and fright. I stopped the lad and asked, "What you got there, son?" "Just some old birds," came the reply."What are you gonna do with them?" I asked. "Take 'him home and have fun with 'then," he answered. "I'm gonna tease 'them and pull out their feathers to make 'them fight. I'm gonna have a realgood time." "But you'll get tired of those birds sooner or later. What will you do?" "Oh, I got some cats," said the little boy. "They like birds. I'lltake 'em to them."The pastor was silent for a moment. "How much do you want for those birds, son?""Huh?? !!! Why, you don't want them birds, mister. They're justplain old field birds. They don't sing.. They ain't even pretty!""How much?" the pastor asked again.The boy sized up the pastor as if he were crazy and said, "$10?"The pastor reached in his pocket and took out a ten dollar bill. He placed it in the boy's hand. In a flash, the boy was gone.The pastor picked up the cage and gently carried it to the end ofthe alley where there was a tree and a grassy spot Setting the cage down, he opened the door, and by softly tapping the bars persuaded the birds out, setting them free. Well, that explained the empty bird cage on the pulpit, and then the pastor began to tell this story.


One day Satan and Jesus were having a conversation. Satan had just come from the Garden! n of Eden n, and he was gloating and boasting. "Yes, sir, I just caught the world full of people down there. Set me a trap, usedbait I knew they couldn't resist. Got 'them all!""What are you going to do with them?" Jesus asked. Satan replied, "Oh, I'm gonna have fun! I'm gonna teach them how tomarry and divorce each other, how to hate and abuse each other, how to drink and smoke and curse. I'm gonna teach them how to invent guns and bombs and kill each other. I'm really gonna have fun!" "And what will you do when you get done with them?" Jesus asked."Oh, I'll kill 'them," Satan glared proudly. "How much do you want for them?" Jesus asked "Oh, you don't want those people. They ain't no good. Why, you'll take them and they'll just hate you. They'll spit on you, curse you and kill you. You don't want those people!!" "How much?" He asked again. Satan looked at Jesus and sneered, "All your blood, tears and yourlife." Jesus said, "DONE!" Then He paid the price.

The pastor picked up the cage he opened the door and he walked fromthe pulpit.

Notes: Isn't it funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell.

We are busy with worldly pleasures we have got and we forget many a times why GOD has shed his blood for us . A simple needle prick to our body or our love one's gets tears and pain to us . He gave everything for us ... We got to love him more than anything ...

BLAME...

Have any one experienced or seen anyone taking blame on them, we want to prove that we are not wrong we are perfect . Many instances I faced i give all silly reasons to boss but was never ready to take blame on me. Finally when I leave his chamber and come back , i sit back and think it sounds really funny for me only.

Here I will explain how silly it was. One day I had to make a presentation for boss and I had put paternal leave instead of maternal that also I blindly typed from the paper print which I got from Human resource department, knowing the fact how they work (that’s entirely different). Here I am wrong but boss made a joke there. My husband will get leave when I deliver the baby I said yes because can not talk anything there. But before saying yes to him I told I got it from HRD and typed the same. Here iam funny right ( ha ha ha ha ha ha )

Ego all that stops us may a times. Many factors work indirectly or directly which stop us from taking the blame in professional and personal life. It is very easy for any one to say or write in balck and white, take the blame on your self which will give you an opportunity to learn. Many a times it is not correct. We got to use brain and act......

MAY GOD BLESS ALL OF US WITH HIS WISDOM TO UNDERSTAND THINGS PROPERLY...

THE TRUST....
I have never seen anyone who has loads of trust on a stranger. He is one more person who finds a special place for what ever little he has done for me. Very formal makes everything formal. Very loving and caring what else.. One can write pages about his trust in friendship.

One more name for perfection in many things .I address him as TAR...strange na he is software guy. Was really wondering for the first time when i met him. With out seeing some one I am trusting ... Leaving that part he is nice chap.Many a times i thought stranger is a stranger , but in this case this person proved me wrong by making things different and making me understand him better and giving space for me to understand him. So nice waits and talk so much share happiness and many thing which makes me also trust... Giving his precious time is one more positive thing about him....

So many positive things right. Hope there is God’s purpose in this .......

MUSICAL NIGHT

Was a big gathering about 400-450 people in one auditorium great to be with Indians specially when you are out side India...Ask me how the feeling will be after meeting someone from India not only me for that matter anyone who is away from mother land .

The most important thing security check while entering after that phase there is only one way in to auditorium that was blocked with people to tell you what they were doing busy in greeting hugs and kisses ...Good but not by blocking the way right first comment was we Indians where ever we are not bothered about others ..(Comment to Indian community)

We settled in comfortable chair then a smart girl MC for the evening I am so and so i will be doing this for this evening.. Then comes the actual things first few were too good. A small kido sitting behind us was too good he was so irritated he was passing comments (eh takla phirse agaya ) . He was passing comments in Hindi about 5 years old must be he is too good he was saying (admi agaye)What a great thing now kids can do many things wow i was enjoying listening to his comments wow great it was.

When a song from Bunti aur Bubli came (guess what it was) wow sung so well . It was Kajrare whole auditorium was with claps and steps great it was to enjoy and after that we had dinner followed by that dinner too many lines but some how got food had and walked all the way with a small discussion which became a great deal of quarrel not with me with someone else anyways that is part of life ... But basically to tell you the truth it was great thing to be with Indians and enjoy "Bath Room Singers" songs.......

thanks to Indian Embassy for arraigning all those for Indians who are here ...

LIFE STORIES


One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.He invited all his neighbours to come over and help him.





They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.As the farmer's neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!





MORAL :Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.
2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less Chaala bagundi kadaa story…. (telugu: meaning is it is very good na )

FAILURE

Failure is a part of the human experience. If failure is seen as a challenge, you will find that it is truly a step on the road to success and personal growth.

"Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently"To fail it is not unworthy; since it implies that one had attempted something.

Roger bannister . a medical student was expected to win the gold medal in the year 1952 helsinki Olympics . He did not but it spurred him to try to run a mile in less than fourty minutes. And he broke the four minutes barrier, two years after his failure at the Olympics. Bennister had said that if he had won the Olympic gold medal he may not have pursued the attempt to break the barrier.

Have any one of us become miserable because we made a mistake? We might not find a right answer at this particular time or answered wrongly? Do not worry. It can happen to the so called best and successful person n earth.

No body is infallible; nobody is right all the time. You have a right to make mistakes. The only person who never makes a mistake is the man who does nothing. But one must learn from the mistakes, we must profit from the mistakes. It is learning experience. This blog is aimed at suggesting all of us to reduce the mistakes and not to think a mistake is a failure...

Never if we do not do any mistakes we can not learn anything keep this in mind and be a successful person.

CONCLUSIONS

In life we conclude things so fast, just with one incidence many a times why is left as a big? (Question mark). Drawing conclusions out of a thing is analytically correct if we go by analysis one needs conclusion. In many presentations and speeches people conclude even when preacher finishes his/her words of meditation they conclude that’s a different thing, i feel it is their opinion what they are sharing with the entire world for its benefit.

We meet many situations where we were forced to conclude things. The thinking process makes us many a times conclude things. I used to take those conclusions as lesions for the life, but never felt that people around me are also taking the same. When I saw many people conclude and take it so serious sometimes it influences major decisions of life.(might be i would say the set of people i have met are like that )

BIRDS OF SAME FEATHERS FLOK TOGETHER

We try to think many times negative that is ok one needs to take situations both the ways (negative as well as positive) this is a kind of preparation for worse come worse situations to face it boldly if we just hope and just think positive many a times it might not work out finally get disappointed . In relationships especially I feel one should not expect things from others when there is chance for this (Expectations)then whole thing ruins.

Let us leave everything to GOD which we never do that but i feel we should do that, fully give him control on our lives so that let him judge us let him give us what he wants but never forget to do our karma and hard work with out that nothing happens .

I do not want to conclude.You(who is reading this ) have to decide whether conclusions or good or bad????????

If you think and come to conclusions if you feel conclusions are good .

Other wise....................... (Incomplete) THINK BIG

MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS ALL OF US......

MORNING WALK

10 months did not even realize how early morning will be except on nov17 2005 had to fly back so got up early and one more day I was on phone outside morning morning saw the sunrise it was in the month of June I guess.

Today I saw sunrise in Dhaka wow it was too good .Morning walks helps us in many ways some does asana some do exercise but, the fact is that lazy butt has to be moved from the cozy bed for it. It was good to go for a morning walk. To my surprise there were ladies in burkas walking. Could not see their faces but many in number i really don’t understand how they are coming out in the morning morning. But nice experience morning morning to just to walk freely which makes the day so good I feel.

It was a straight road never been to such place and was really worried for the first time but after seeing burka ladies thought it is ok. the morning breeze was too good foggy road and no cars in the morning morning except those stupid rickshaws while coming back things were too good felt really happy after seeing sun rise just stood to stare at even though my colleague was telling see in India also sun rise is the same but rises little late (dhaka time is half an hour ahead form Indian time)

Hope this morning exercise will help my body free from all aches and my mind free from all worries hope so, hoping for the best.

POSITIVE EDGE....

KEEP UP YOUR PROMISES

We make promises in many situations some we use as a weapon to make the other person understand and trust us. But our almighty told us not to promise according to scriptures he says the same when you did not make the earth heaven you can not promise on that because you are not the owner of it.

I had two people two are from two different places one says he will never promise at all when I ask many situations I asked him to promise he said NO .But the other person promised me (like me) but he tried to keep up his promise many a times at one instance he could not. But I am confused once the second person had cancelled his employee get to gethers and friends party just to keep up his promise.

If I have to judge these two what should I say the first person is escaping or he is correct I always said in many situations not to be judgmental have one thing to say that both are correct in their own way.

I will not judge bow anyone but one thing to assess myself what i have done and a hint to all who had such situations try to avoid situations where you will land in saying NO to people we all should know how to say NO (I mean in a polished way). When we give a word we all need to be careful to make sure we keep up that there could be situations where we come across such circumstances where we can not keep up because of many reasons those should be rare but normally try to keep up our word. Which many a times acts as standard base for assessing one's personality, which is wrong but we all do it.

LIFE IS A GAME LET US PLAY IT CAREFULLY.

LIKES AND DISLIKES MISMATCH

In a day as usual we do many things before going to bed, life is all about how we live

I normally share things with my friends as usual one day I started sharing my idea about how now metro are going and how we are leading life and wage topic it was. Finally I told my friend about a place which I do not like for many reasons.

Unfortunately or fortunately that’s the place where he is right now working (It is not his native place but he is currently situated there). I said one day that I do not like that place, not bad every one has their own way to express their opinion about place.

I supported that by saying why I hate that place. He denied it saying that’s not the problem of place but problem lies with the media and other things which tries exploring things...


THINK WHICH PLACE IT IS????????

Ok one clue it is one of metro's in India IT HUB. You must have got by now. Where cost of living is very high compared to all metro (this is second clue).

He is one very health cautious (which is not true) he takes lunch and dinner properly very often. If he takes it might be because of his friends’ lives on junk food all the time like me. He is studious like me (we will put a small prayer for his exams which are coming up). He is so nice who never tries to hurt anyone he hates doing that. He tries helping everyone which ever way it is possible for him. He likes going on long drives (alone). He has one more hobby photography. Nice to know this person na ...

As I explained about my friend I am sure you all must be having many more friends and many more debates also we now has only one debate hope that continues to be only one ......

I WISH HIM ALL THE SUCCESS IN HIS LIFE......

I feel we all have freedom to have our own choice to like or dislike anything anywhere. It is needless that it should match with your own people's likes. It could be a friend if it is friend it is always good that we know each other so well where that person will understand us why we have that in mind and it varies if it is family it is all the more easy because they know you much better than anyone . We are all individuals so we have likes also which has their own base.

Some one has written to me in a comment that life is not so simple as you have explained and all that and he has also mentioned that rejection is something which is hard to accept.

Rejection in any form is hard to digest. The rejection could be in professional life or personal life in any form I might be getting rejected for anything is sad but positive edge of it is we have learnt a lesion there and that is of a greater value to us .

Try to remember one thing this should not be your base to judge or do anything. When I saw a girl crying because she was rejected for a marriage proposal I shouted at her. To day she is a successful person in her professional life but she is still unmarried she is not that old I have seen many cases in my life where people try to get satisfaction from some other thing.

If for example marriage , all guys want good looking fair girls where will dark completion girls will go we are forgetting one thing here that life is not going to tell us anything related to beauty finally both should lead a happy life that should be a priority.Let us just give a thought to it marriage is an ultimate thing for both the families. Many marriages are successful but there are initial hick ups in all relationship. If we are matured enough life will be smooth.

IT IS THE WAY ONE TAKES AND THINKS ABOUT LIFE .BE SPORTIVE THERE IS STILL HOPE.... HE IS OUR ALMIGHY

TEMPER

Temper is something which makes life miserable. Loosing temper is something which no one would like that to happen. When I was small used to see a person who looses temper on people for small things he used to scold people a lot. I literally used to curse him for that.

U know to my shocking I still see many people around who loose temper . I realised taking deep breath when he /she is in bad phase works wonders but one thing every one will feel they should not be disturbed when they are in that state of mind only that person will know what’s happening with him/ her obvious it is no one knows.

When we shout at people, normally people think that we are yelling at them with out any reason we should realize that the person who is shouting or wanting something is not mad to yell at someone else with out any reasons. I won't say thats correct all the time but sometimes it happens occasionally that unnecessary some one becomes a bakra (gets the blame) in that situation where the person has nothing to do but will have to phase with out any reason.

Generally no one wants to shout or loose temper I myself feel I should not shout at anyone. Always I pray GOD before leaving my home that I should be calm and things should be fine with me now .But unfortunately things happen sometime .

Basically temper is very bad we got to realize it and now that this asan's and other things like meditation are helping people a lot lets try out something like that to lead peaceful life which is very short..........