Life is like a gardenAnd friendship like a flower,That blooms and grows in beautyWith the sunshine and the shower.

And lovely are the blossomsThat are tended with great care,By those who work unselfishlyTo make the place more fair.

And, like the garden blossoms,Friendship's flower grows more sweetWhen watched and tended carefullyBy those we know and meet.

And, if the seed of friendshipIs planted deep and trueAnd watched with understanding,Friendship's flower will bloom for you.

Thanks For Being My Friend!

I DO NOT LIKE ............................

To day I thought I should write about my dearest friend who is a special person for me now . She is very easy going and will not take things as easy but still has some space for principles too ....

She knows every moment of my life what am I doing where am i going wrong everything in fact I should say for the past six-seven months I am totally under control many a times because of her she shows graph many a times in a day my mood swings . I normally go uncontrollable many a times that time zig it is up comes down many a times when I am sad do not want to talk to anyone .....

we came together to work we are staying in the same place sharing same room sharing sweet and bitter moments together...Had not realized anytime that i need to leave her so early time has come to leave and say bye to her she won't be there physically anymore with me working here .

we walked together spend many a times fighting for small things spent time laughing loud spent time singing when the light goes off that’s the best time . We used to shout when light goes off and when i see lizard and when she comes across a cockroach sad part is lizards and cockroaches are many in our room we had over come this because when ever she saw lizard i used to run away when cockroach comes i have to dare to kill it , be it midnight of day i have to take my chappal in my hand and kill an insect . One day it happend such BAT came inside both started screaming came out of room some how managed to send the BAT out of the house .

she has principles I said na she does not like someone touching her face she does not like some one pulling her hair she does not like many things ... I told her many a times to list out what ever she does not like ... From day one I am telling her ...I troubled her a lot…

I won't say I don’t like this and that so often as she uses . But believe me she is very good at heart we both are emotional when I cry she never cries but when i see her crying i can not stop my tears . I love her very much , she is elder to me by one year but have learnt many things from her . She does not like taking help form anyone she tries her level best to do on her own I have to practice she says if I take a help I have to bow down my head and have to listen to him/her . Did many mistakes now want to correct she was telling me she used to say every time that you do conscious clearance by sharing each and every dam thing ( ha I did that but now I don’t have anyone to do that). Days are moving I pray and wish to see her happy all the time in her life ...

LANGUAGE
Now we have so many means and channels through which we can learn a language. The base for learning any language is to make the whole process of communication much easier. But language is one channel to make communication easier just by knowing a language we can not successfully communicate.

When we go past people used to communicate through signals and through shouting .Every living being communicates.

When the kid starts speaking in mom's lap he tries making moo moo.. Sounds. He is a perfect observer he observes and patiently listens to mom and others what ever they are saying .The kid is comfortable only with mom some are very friendly from childhood they go to everyone. When they are uncomfortable they cry and that’s the signal for mom that he needs something ... What happens when a child is born we give extra care we know that he can not communicate what he wants so we help him/her till they grow up and can speak normally.

How important is communication we have to understand if I know something and can not explain the other person and the whole process of communication has broken because of me .I am barrier there. we must have heard many a times what’s is communication we have to make the other person understand through what ever way possible use all your skills and make the other person understand .

Here I would add my own example when i was given a group for training .First thing is i do not know the language they can understand and they can not understand the languages I can speak. These are low level employee in the organization. I had a fear can i make them understand then i sat down to think what can i do took help of their supervisors to translate the response was too good felt happy then asked another person to make certain points in their language and give them to learn the same it really worked wonders they could understand it much much much better than anyone today I am happy because of them i have started learning a new language in my life.

That’s the thing we all learn languages to communicate one thing knowing correct way means grammatically correct way and correct slang is very important. Trying level best to learn things hope I will succeed. I felt learning a language is very important and the most important thing is ways and means of communication if you can not speak then find out ways how we can make the other person . I am sure all of us must have had an experience when we go to different places must have phased problems to make people understand but we should all thank foreigners for giving common language English which we are using now ....

WHY DO WE GET HURT ...??????? HOW DO WE OVER COME A DIFFICULTY..??????
Had seen a w0nderful title today did not knew the meaning of the word found through the support of MS -WORD thesaurus. The word is unscathed meaning of it is unhurt, un harmed ,untouched .
We have different interests in life we are all passionate of some thing , want to do this that according to our likes and dislikes...

when do we get hurt we all must have hurt in life some time or the other when we get hurt we show in different forms some cry loud . some sit calm and think or just be alone .. we have different ways to react to situations

EVERY ACTION HAS IT'S OWN EQUAL AND OPPOSITE REACTION -" Newt0n's Findings "

In this as i said we react to the situation some shows it some might not ... In this topic for discussion is why do we get hurt ........
we have 6 words here to find out a correct answer :
why ,who, what, when ,where , how.

I have used the first one to find out " why do we get hurt "

WHY??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

we have our own reasons to analyze things a hurt for XYZ will not be same for ABC it might not be the same because his way of thinking and his way of seeing things differ from XYZ. That’s the reason why we call "Individual "we are not alike in anyway.....

If we see psychology place a very important role in every one’s attitude, passion and likes dislikes ,thinking process, analysis ,and etc...

This has some implications we hate certain things which we have seen in life suppose in small age we saw a scary thing or mom or grand mom has taught us that cockroach is scary that is developed by mom and grand mom , but it lasts till that boy ends life he will be scared some tries to avoid and some tries over coming this difficulties by catching it nothing will happened ...

But many of us till today have some fear . We believe in some higher power that leads us in life . But when we get hurt there will be some reason behind that . When we try to find out why we got hurt we think about the whole thing and we will also find solutions to it why we are hurt . but one thing i found is we all have reasons but we don’t find out solutions to overcome difficulties when we are hurt we know the cause we must have done somewhere some at least 1% of mistake some times the mistake totally lies on other person / on us also ..

I would only say we should analyze first of all if we are wrong in any circumstance we are emotional emotions ruin us many times but still if we start knowing and seeing what’s wrong where the fault lies I am sure we would be great one day .......

LET’S PUT IN TO PRACTISE INSTEAD OF DISCUSSING......