Saturday, October 08, 2005

WHY DO WE GET HURT ...??????? HOW DO WE OVER COME A DIFFICULTY..??????
Had seen a w0nderful title today did not knew the meaning of the word found through the support of MS -WORD thesaurus. The word is unscathed meaning of it is unhurt, un harmed ,untouched .
We have different interests in life we are all passionate of some thing , want to do this that according to our likes and dislikes...

when do we get hurt we all must have hurt in life some time or the other when we get hurt we show in different forms some cry loud . some sit calm and think or just be alone .. we have different ways to react to situations

EVERY ACTION HAS IT'S OWN EQUAL AND OPPOSITE REACTION -" Newt0n's Findings "

In this as i said we react to the situation some shows it some might not ... In this topic for discussion is why do we get hurt ........
we have 6 words here to find out a correct answer :
why ,who, what, when ,where , how.

I have used the first one to find out " why do we get hurt "

WHY??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

we have our own reasons to analyze things a hurt for XYZ will not be same for ABC it might not be the same because his way of thinking and his way of seeing things differ from XYZ. That’s the reason why we call "Individual "we are not alike in anyway.....

If we see psychology place a very important role in every one’s attitude, passion and likes dislikes ,thinking process, analysis ,and etc...

This has some implications we hate certain things which we have seen in life suppose in small age we saw a scary thing or mom or grand mom has taught us that cockroach is scary that is developed by mom and grand mom , but it lasts till that boy ends life he will be scared some tries to avoid and some tries over coming this difficulties by catching it nothing will happened ...

But many of us till today have some fear . We believe in some higher power that leads us in life . But when we get hurt there will be some reason behind that . When we try to find out why we got hurt we think about the whole thing and we will also find solutions to it why we are hurt . but one thing i found is we all have reasons but we don’t find out solutions to overcome difficulties when we are hurt we know the cause we must have done somewhere some at least 1% of mistake some times the mistake totally lies on other person / on us also ..

I would only say we should analyze first of all if we are wrong in any circumstance we are emotional emotions ruin us many times but still if we start knowing and seeing what’s wrong where the fault lies I am sure we would be great one day .......

LET’S PUT IN TO PRACTISE INSTEAD OF DISCUSSING......

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi sheela: WHY DO WE GET HURT ...??????? HOW DO WE OVER COME A DIFFICULTY..?????? I dont know about that but I grt hurt from my lover who betrayed me.. I had lots of faith/trust on her but she made my life a hell.. I can not blame her because I love her and my love is true.. I never hurt her and she gave me punishment..

This is life.. I made mistake of keeping trust and lots of expectation from her..

Hope this should not happen to my enmies also...

Gnyanendra

sheela said...

I was just seeing the comments i donot know why it had happen to you i woul only say one thing if you had trust in her and if you think or feel she has left you all alone let me tell you onething GOD gives us the best always so keep watching you will get the best in life donot loose your heart .