Now a days we are in so called modern era where in we make friends with out seeing him/her. One thing I used to always have in my mind before experiencing that kind of friendship. How do I trust a person without seeing? This was a big question mark all the time but still to kill the loneliness I have started chatting when I was working in Dhaka, the chat was to start with first family then relatives and then college seniors juniors then finally unknown . A fine day, one of my senior gave me one site to download so that he said he can chat through that. I had no clue as to what it was anyways yahoo was blocked for him so he asked me to download this and gave http also, first thing I had asked him I don’t have anyone slowly I was almost addicted to it and all my colleagues got used to that chat room and there was no recreation so everything was through chat. Slowly started knowing many people shared about me an my life and that was all fine. Till today I have the same question why do we trust a person so much?
I have an answer GOD who is the sole controller he will have his own purpose in doing things, so in that run we happen to be very emotional and get hurt also . I don’t know it is for good or bad some times what ever happens has to happen for some reason, we can not neglect or forego anything.
We are all social animals where in we need people specially after certain period of time our needs change and that’s when we start getting attracted to opposite sex persons there is nothing wrong in it because it is a natural phenomenon has to happen. I just came across a incidence which happen to my classmate, that people misuse what is existing. My classmate in PG she is topper in my class she had a friend who gave his details through chat and met her, she used to go around she is unmarried girl she is doc by profession. She suddenly came to know on a fine day that he was married and all the details which he has provided her were turned to be wrong. Imagine the trauma she must have underwent, he was married and had a kid too but still was trying to flirt around with a girl. Why does such thing happen? When are we going to change our thinking? These are all unanswerable it is all fun time for some one but they always forget that fun will give pain to the other person. There are many things happening now a days but this might be 50% the other 50% is that we are getting to know a person who will be life time friend some are turning to be partners too . We never know what happens but what ever happens happens for a cause …
HAVE A WONDERFUL LIFE …
1 comment:
Hello Sheela,
I enjoyed reading the articles of your precious life. They are excellently narrated stories. I think, every one may have such events in life irrespective of Gender.
I am from a village close by MPL. I love browsing net, but not chatting with anyone, simply not because I am married. But, some how, I do not like chatting with a strange person even if it happens before my marriage. I do look for some new things or profiles to gain knowledge and read people. So people have different mentalities and thoughts.
As I understood some unpleasant things happened to you in routine city life. But may be there are people (men/women) who may have good experiences in life. May be you may have excellent time in future. Memorize the good things that have happened today or yester day and just ignore bad experiences. That is the only way to enjoy life.
Some how, I liked the way you expressed in your precious life stories. I could only read two or a two-and-half. Specially, the article about friendship is very nice. Very talented and lot of patience to spare time on the daily events, besides, needs lot of courage to express things.
Keep it up and may GOD bless you to have excellent career.
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