Many of us go selfish in many instances. Many a times we do not think about the person who is involved in the situation at that particular point of time. We think our problem is heavier and we do not need to think about others.

Some where we are all social animals and need to accommodate people. Think for instance if GOD can not accommodate us and he only thinks about himself and forgets about his own creation (Mankind) can we survive on our own. We all need one another. We need each others support and thoughts to live in this world. We need some one to patch our back which assures us a lot and provides us a good strength.

When we are sick and not able to do our daily routines no one would want to just be on their own, we feel what if my mother or some one would have been next to me asking to eat this and do that to get rid of the pain that I am undergoing right now. This is what happens to each one of some only difference is that some expresses them openly and some keeps it with them and burdens.

I am not trying to tell anyone not to be selfish; winning a person is not so easy. Loosing anyone or anything is very easy task. We all have our own thoughts and ideas about each situation. We act accordingly but if we give some time to ourselves in understanding that we are not making the effort to make us think that we live for one another and sometimes yes we live for ourselves. When we are in a dire need of a person we fall back on few people whom we trust and that person is not willing to help us (if in case) it is so painful to digest the fact that we have no one for help.

Believe in ‘Almighty’ who is always welcoming you and he has his hands open for each one of us anytime. Let us seek him and worship him for what he is in our lives

MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING ….
All set for the lavish wedding of ‘My Best Friend’. I am very excited and very happy to tell you all that I am longing to see her in her Bridal wear. She is undergoing lot of tensions as she is doing everything on her own. She is very sweet girl.
On every step initiated in life we feel the excitement and nervousness to experience the same. Small or big, all achievements which come our way are much deserved though.
Especially in achieving a life time friendship and bond. Again initiating a new step in life with full excitement and equal nervousness by getting bonded with some one’s life, accepting them as partner and everything for the rest of the life .
We dream a lot, we pray with faith within us to move the same in our lives. Ultimately life is already decided by the creator (This is the ground reality and we need to accept this to move on..)
"To think it is easy. To act it is difficult. To act as one thinks is the most difficult" Johann wolfgang Von Goeth
I hope that it will not be that difficult for her to act as her partner thinks as they were both very good friends turned to lovers and becoming partners now.
I am done with my shopping and all set to see the wedding and pray her that things go fine in all ways and my best wishes are always with her .
I am hoping that things will be fine and she will be very happy in her entire life , with out any troubles and hurdles.
With all my prayers for the entire life

HOW TO DEAL WITH THINGS….

This is an art of life where very few people deal it sensible and they act very normal. There are no set formulae or any instructions as it differs from person to person and primarily it is dependant on the situation (Entirely).
Only one universal tip is that when the other person is in bad temper stay silent which really helps us. If both start bombarding the end result is fight and Blood pressure and implications and so on and so forth…
Being silent is not as easy as anyone tells. We are all human beings and having loads of ego and self-respect. But still advisable to stay cool and silent. With which we do not loose rather we gain a lot.
One thing is for sure when we do things we always think that what ever we are doing is right in our own way and try reasoning the situation.
I feel at times we also should take inputs from people around who observe you from time to time and mould a bit try changing for good.
There must have been situation where you are totally correct but then you are targeted for no reason but with this you can not prove the whole world that what ever you have done is correct. Take it from me if you accept or not if there is one person who say that you are good and very nice, there are three people who say you are not good.
If some one makes an opinion on you and try avoiding you, it is always better for us that we do not need to scratch our head in thinking and analyzing about that person. Well in modern times we need to be good with everyone around for one that that you never know what will go wrong if you spoil the relationship .
For me I would say do not end up anything with bitter memories rather try solving it or leave it to time as I feel time is the best teacher for us all….

It is a different time that I have traveled all the way to meet one of my friend here in Bangalore.

It was so tiring and slept whole day finally got up and met a new person called Rekha and her cousin. We had a karnataka style lunch and now I might head to words some shops , let me see if I can do some sopping for my best friend.

I forgot to mention the most important thing that is my best friend is getting married to her beloved. I am so happy for my best friend …..

I had spent some time with her last week where we got reminded of all college memories. Life is smooth till now and no worries as of now …

I have one more news to inform that is my organization is getting acquired by another Australian company. I have no clue as what is going to happen to our jobs and specially policies .. Hoping for the best and praying for the future…

Te second day continues in Bangalore where the life is very busy as far as I know . I had my own time slept well and all set to go back to Hyderabad today evening . I hope I will not face any difficulty today in my travel.

Rest all the same as we know life moves it is been one year since I came back to Bangalore . Same time last year I was here with the same friend but it was for a different purpose , I had come for a official thing where in my previous company there was some audit happening . But then this time I have come totally on personal note .. With this I leave to days updates and I need to get ready t visit Sumathi .. Hoping that I will have good time with their family too…

U guys have good time and happy Diwali if I can not blog till then take care and be careful.

May GOD bless each and every person who is in need ………

WHATS DO WE GET AT THE END IS DECIDED ALREADY

We have a saying that 'Man Proposes and GOD disposes' It will hold good for me in my life all time .



I wanted many things in my life cried had bitter times in life but ultimately moved on with what i had at that particular point of time . I feel that was immeturity that makes any one think that there is nothing in life for us with out that .



We all fall in love at one point or the other but we are all not successful in all the ways . Some people are lucky I can call them since they get what they want or probably that is what meant for them .



I felt 2 years back that there was no life but still I was not in the verge to any such decisions of ending life and all bit it was terrible time for me to even relaise the same . I did not learn lesion out of that i moved on to a great place called hyderabad where i did my PG .


This place is very good and I specially love this place . I joined a second JOB in HYD and founda very nice friend and started feeling that he is everything for me . Where I did not understand that it should be same from that side also , bad luck but i still love him for what he is . I know that I might not be able to succeed this time again but life will move on and Iam dam sure that I will get what GOD had kept for me ...



With the positive note lets move on ......

(Martin is leading us for leiden tour, left side is Rudd (tall guy) On right side to martin is my boss Dr.Jai, On left side Mr.Mou from UK office , on right side to Dr.Jai is Mr.Thambas techinical guy from chennai office )

Yes it is time to say bye to Leiden office staff . We are leaving for India tomorrow morning . I really enjoyed the time I was here ..

Holiday inn was really sophisticated and was luxurious to stay . Thanks to each and every person who is directly and indirectly involved in making my trip a success.

It was fun knowing colleagues here Ruud , Martin , Herman and Peter. It was irritating at times as they were talking in dutch on top of their voices but still it was really nice to know them.

It was really nice to be with these people. My manager and my immediate boss .. Whom I should not forget to thank as they were with me all the while.. It was nice all together and I am happy that I am returning back to my Hyderabad…

Will start writing again once I reach Hyderabad .. Till then you guys have fun and My love to my Lukas Jennette and Dietrich. Thanks to one and all...

Europe….

A small place called Leiden gave me an opportunity to visit Europe and meet my cousin and see my office here . A small beautiful place .

The best place is Holiday Inn which is lovely , it is outside the city but very nice place. Food was a little difficult thing to manage as whole Leiden does not have a Indian Restaurant. Mcdonalds wow hurray saved life.

Coke I got aversion to coke now . One day night I decided not to have coke any more … Too much of coke . This trip made me have black coffee . To tell you all I never had normal coffee also there in India .. Everything is possible under the sun …

I visited my cousin here and saw my nephew too (Lukas) cute Lukas…. Called me atta. Had a nice time with him ..

Iam winding up this with a small note to all dutch people who made me learn words like KIP , O pa , O Ma (Kip- Chicken , Opa- Grand father , O ma- Grand mother)
Thank you Leiden for giving me this opportunity to do so many things

<>Why decision making takes time?? (Hyderabad to Some Holiday place)

I know a person who is married and wanting to take his family which contains a wife two kids and one mother- in- law . From morning he searched all places possible visiting places in the last minute .

He tried Karnataka ,covered Tamil Nadu and finally landed in Andhra Pradesh … Result nothing he is taking every one’s inputs .

There are some crucial road blocks for this they are :

1. Last minute there are no train tickets in AC classes.
2. He does not want to spend so much money for flights ( Which is very valid).
3. He does not prefer buses (not even Volvo) .
   
4. He has his own vehicle , he wants to drive the family to some place , thing is none of the places are with in limits where he can drive them.

Some one at tea break told him to go to Srisailam which is a pilgrim centre and he is from North India . He can not speak a bit of Telugu also (Main Disadvantage )

He boiled down to go to Vizag with my advice the thing is he is not getting road map which can lead him to Vizag from Hyderabad . After some time he decided to go to Vijayawada

By after noon he was almost decided and with the help of ‘Sheela’ he made calls to AP tourist office … Srisailam has only one resort that’s Punnami where it is fully booked ….I found out that there is a hotel but that is only for lodging .. I seriously feel bad for him .

Every one feels bad for him as he is taking out his time to just to make his family enjoy .. When I went and sat with him only suggestion he had for me is do not get married enjoy life like this only . Once you get married then you have no options left to enjoy yourself …

The out come is that tomarrow there is strike in Andhra if that’s the case he wants to take a bus to Karnataka and then go Goa and Mysore from there .. In that case the third point in road block is not a actual road block… he he he he he

Nicest weekend

It was great week end to be with my friend and cook for her. Going out with her. We both are best friends and she is very soon getting married. She just arrived from Chennai after attending my classmate’s reception.

Fortunately her boy friend is out of station. She asked me to pick her up from Air-Port. Madam for one day carried 13 kgs baggage with all that reached Hyderabad at 10:30 PM. We drove till her house with a break at Hyderabad House just to pick up few things for dinner.

Went to her room. Such a mess… Oh… GOD... Then had a great dinner together and we started the actual discussion about reception (it was started on our way to her room only but still). We slept around 3:00 Am imagine we had so much to talk ( Do not say girls talk too much ) We got this time after 2 months so updation of two months( on and off we keep talking over phone but still)… Morning got up around 11:00AM and had breakfast and freshened up to go to parlor , from there to lunch ..

Then had coconut water at the middle wow that was so nice in hot sun… Then back our respective rooms to sleep ………. Then evening show… That was my week end.

There are so many things one wants to convey to the other person but many a times He/ She can not express things as too much of anything is bad.

There is a limit to everything we do in life. There should be said lines where one can draw for every instance. We ignore certain things in life for specific reasons but that ignorance will not fade the memory. Some where back of our minds we still have but we always think that we have ignored that instance.

There are some points I want to convey in general …. They are … Here they go ….

1. Do not neglect any one for any reason
2. Do not under / over estimate any one for any purpose / reason
3. Do not look at a person with a wrong intuition in your mind about that person
4. Never portray your self negative for anyone
5. Do not avoid a person for any odd reason
6. Never measure the person in front of you. Remember that we will also be measured with the same scale
7. Treasure what you have now
8. Have always positive thoughts to larger extent
9. Remember that there is solution behind every problem, but remember that time is the only teacher and it is the only decision maker which leads us in that way…
10. Try to avoid giving false reasons for any thing

These are some points which we always need to remember and practice also…. World around is very small, we might need people for what ever reason. But remember this when we need the most there will not be a single person except your loved one’s and your Almighty who is your creator and always watching you and helping you ..

WHAT ARE WE UP TO…

When we analyze ourselves we have lead a life where we were very selfish many a times. We always try to make ourselves comfortable rather than looking at others . If there is a small thing which gives us discomfort we think so many ways to avoid that small thing.

What are we gaining in this life being so? One instance I was sharing with one of my cousin about my life that I want to just live a life adopting a KID so that he/she will also have a good and comfortable life with me. He suddenly replied me hay that’s nice to know that you have Christianity in you. I am not talking about any religion or about a race here. We all have some values in life and we all have some customs and traditions which we are carrying with us. All of a sudden we can not be so different for any reason.

My only message through this is we have people around who are really having tough time to lead their daily life forget comfortable at least one day if all think and start doing something for them would really help them .

But one more question is where we go to help them send money to charitable trusts and old age. I heard they misuse the money then HOW we can help this country in terms of growth and development? Please think about this … I will also do the same we will collectively do something for our country which has given us an identity in this life and in this world……

WHERE ARE WE HEADDING?

Life is such a mess; we do not know where we are leading to words...

There was an instance where so called my own friend had wonderful sentences for me. I can not forget those sentences. We always saw a girl as a precious one GOD blessed women with lot of patience and he gave them lot of responsibilities to handle.

In this era we always see and measure a girl from top to bottom. A guy can talk anything he wants but girl can not do the same what a sad thing .

If we look at something when we point out at some one we forget that three more figures are pointing at ourselves.

A guy wants a virgin girl to marry but the same can not be the other side. Recently one of my best friends told me that ‘I encourage only time pass girls’. I was shocked to hear that from him. There were many more shocking things I had to hear.

Truth lies some where we are at the end of the world and what ever is said is coming true in every aspect. We are in our last days in this world …….

We might think it is unimaginable to live in these circumstances but we need to be bold and live our lives .Final judgment is very near so be cautious with our actions and words . We live very short there is eternal life ahead ….. Be happy and stop judging others for any reason.

Did any time this struck our mind? We just live as if time is pushing us. We do things which we like and sometimes we are forced to do things which we don’t like also.

When we sit calm also the thinking process is still on. It is never ending; we keep thinking and burdening ourselves for no reason.

The mirror inside you reflects your face and mind to do what you have to do, but still we hide ourselves somewhere and try portraying as if we are different .

Why do you like few people it is all that frequency which matches with them. We feel they are meant for something. When you feel so you try giving them lot of importance to that person .In that run we forget that we are loosing our own-ness just to win that person.

Many instances we love a person more than required, give them lot of attention, which some really enjoy not giving obviously getting attention.

All these are never ending it just comes as a wave which wipes what ever is written in the sand on the beach. Life is the same what ever is meant for us is decided long back , rest all is just the beautiful lines which we are writing with lot of patients on the sand knowing that waves will wipe away how ever beautiful it might be. That’s the ultimatum accept what is meant for you and go on in life ….. Life ahead is so beautiful provided if you want to make that beautiful.

Analyze yourself what you are? And do not hide your self. Your beauty lies there when you know what you are? Many a times we do not know what we are that when , we end up in mess.

REJECTION...

The word itself is so painful. We never want this to happen in our lives any time for any reason. We all develop feelings with in and sometimes people suppress their feelings as they are always worried of the outcome might be ‘Rejection’.

When we get rejected we take out anger in many different ways. Life just goes on with out that person also, we must have enjoyed the moments as a day dreamers in life. Some give lot of importance to family values and their past life which has a greater impact which makes the person a negative as whole. He /She want to take out the anger just because they had that bitter memories in their past life.

For the other person the perception might be very wrong. I have seen a person and experienced that he is totally different just because a girl ditched him. He is trying to always co-relate that with every girl he is meeting. Now he has a negative impact on every girl. He feels he can not trust any girl anymore. I have seen the feelings. I felt really bad why at all this happen to him but the answer to that is. ………………..

“Man proposes and GOD disposes”

God wants to teach us something .He chose this way to teach him . But one message to him from my side is. The time is going to change what ever he had decided before was just not meant for him so only it just left him in the sadness and bitter thoughts. Please start thinking positive it wipes away all the negative feelings form your mind there is still greener pasture for you. God will save you for what ever you are and he will alone guide you in his own way.

Today is a day full of three colors. I was wondering to see many girls in RED dress while I was coming to office. The day filled with ROSES and three colors like WHITE RED and PINK. This day has got its own value.

Many people wait for today and some just pass this day like any other day .This day will be special for those who have a date for the evening. If any of you do not have a date do not worry have dinner with your friends tonight. Have good chocolates and enjoy the day..

But do not feel that YOU are alone and all … Because the days schedule is written long back so when things has to happen they will happen. If you and me wants it they might not just happen … Hmm stop thinking and enjoy today … Do not think about yesterday and tomorrow …

The times when everyone wants to be special. The times when every one seek that importance from the other person. These are all expectations in life which trouble a person so much.

We always think we are the BEST what ever may come . One point we need to realize that we are all human beings and we are made for a purpose. The hours and days pass by and time comes when we sit back and think about our past. I am dam sure we will all have points to make note of and to rectify things. Because when we handle things we handle it with immaturity and many a times it is situational. Emotionally we might be weak and to larger extent decision making gets affected with some of the parameters.

When we were small we always worried about colorful toys . When we start going to school we think from school dress till pencil which we carried . An extension to that we slowly start having our own wishes from food till our idea’s and friendships. This is all Tran session period. When we cross a limit and start earning then we want to have luxuries in life these are never ending . We feel always see for the betterment in all respects .

A girl before marriage gives a good thought about her future partner . She would want so many things in him , but after all these once she gets married and goes to his house she needs to forget about her life before and start a new chapter all together , not only girl guys do the same they adjust with her and her behavior they try convincing their family to accept her and they become the key person in life who will show the road ahead. Till the death these challenges are very common in life .. Never ending .. Some times we pass the test and some times we get average score and some time sadly we fail . But we learn out of the mistakes this is all life…. LETS CHERISH EACH AND EVERY MINUTE OF IT.. THIS IS ALL LOVE TOWORD THE EARTHY THINGS AND LIFE ..( We forget that there is eternal life after death )

MISSING AN IMPORTANT EVENT ..

When we were born we never knew as to how the life would be . We thought of many things in life as we grew older but many a times things end up with a disappointment . Which we have to accept forcefully . We love our families (NO DOUBT ABOUT IT ) , when something happens against our wish and it just happens in such a shape where we can not undo the event . Such events are one wrong foot in life / decision about marriage against the will of families etc..

We normally realize the importance of human being or anything when it is not there with us . I have faced an instance of the same where the intensity of that event made me go mad did not knew how to go about .. Felt that’s fate . Iam beating around the bush , my sweet sis whom I loved so much got married on 5^th JAN 2007 . I feel that’s a new year blessing for me and my family which ended up in shock . Cried out to lord but that’s the dead end we can not do anything . Only thing we can do is pray for their life and future ..

I love you so much akka . Miss u now but u are with some one else ..