CONCLUSIONS

In life we conclude things so fast, just with one incidence many a times why is left as a big? (Question mark). Drawing conclusions out of a thing is analytically correct if we go by analysis one needs conclusion. In many presentations and speeches people conclude even when preacher finishes his/her words of meditation they conclude that’s a different thing, i feel it is their opinion what they are sharing with the entire world for its benefit.

We meet many situations where we were forced to conclude things. The thinking process makes us many a times conclude things. I used to take those conclusions as lesions for the life, but never felt that people around me are also taking the same. When I saw many people conclude and take it so serious sometimes it influences major decisions of life.(might be i would say the set of people i have met are like that )

BIRDS OF SAME FEATHERS FLOK TOGETHER

We try to think many times negative that is ok one needs to take situations both the ways (negative as well as positive) this is a kind of preparation for worse come worse situations to face it boldly if we just hope and just think positive many a times it might not work out finally get disappointed . In relationships especially I feel one should not expect things from others when there is chance for this (Expectations)then whole thing ruins.

Let us leave everything to GOD which we never do that but i feel we should do that, fully give him control on our lives so that let him judge us let him give us what he wants but never forget to do our karma and hard work with out that nothing happens .

I do not want to conclude.You(who is reading this ) have to decide whether conclusions or good or bad????????

If you think and come to conclusions if you feel conclusions are good .

Other wise....................... (Incomplete) THINK BIG

MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS ALL OF US......

MORNING WALK

10 months did not even realize how early morning will be except on nov17 2005 had to fly back so got up early and one more day I was on phone outside morning morning saw the sunrise it was in the month of June I guess.

Today I saw sunrise in Dhaka wow it was too good .Morning walks helps us in many ways some does asana some do exercise but, the fact is that lazy butt has to be moved from the cozy bed for it. It was good to go for a morning walk. To my surprise there were ladies in burkas walking. Could not see their faces but many in number i really don’t understand how they are coming out in the morning morning. But nice experience morning morning to just to walk freely which makes the day so good I feel.

It was a straight road never been to such place and was really worried for the first time but after seeing burka ladies thought it is ok. the morning breeze was too good foggy road and no cars in the morning morning except those stupid rickshaws while coming back things were too good felt really happy after seeing sun rise just stood to stare at even though my colleague was telling see in India also sun rise is the same but rises little late (dhaka time is half an hour ahead form Indian time)

Hope this morning exercise will help my body free from all aches and my mind free from all worries hope so, hoping for the best.

POSITIVE EDGE....

KEEP UP YOUR PROMISES

We make promises in many situations some we use as a weapon to make the other person understand and trust us. But our almighty told us not to promise according to scriptures he says the same when you did not make the earth heaven you can not promise on that because you are not the owner of it.

I had two people two are from two different places one says he will never promise at all when I ask many situations I asked him to promise he said NO .But the other person promised me (like me) but he tried to keep up his promise many a times at one instance he could not. But I am confused once the second person had cancelled his employee get to gethers and friends party just to keep up his promise.

If I have to judge these two what should I say the first person is escaping or he is correct I always said in many situations not to be judgmental have one thing to say that both are correct in their own way.

I will not judge bow anyone but one thing to assess myself what i have done and a hint to all who had such situations try to avoid situations where you will land in saying NO to people we all should know how to say NO (I mean in a polished way). When we give a word we all need to be careful to make sure we keep up that there could be situations where we come across such circumstances where we can not keep up because of many reasons those should be rare but normally try to keep up our word. Which many a times acts as standard base for assessing one's personality, which is wrong but we all do it.

LIFE IS A GAME LET US PLAY IT CAREFULLY.

LIKES AND DISLIKES MISMATCH

In a day as usual we do many things before going to bed, life is all about how we live

I normally share things with my friends as usual one day I started sharing my idea about how now metro are going and how we are leading life and wage topic it was. Finally I told my friend about a place which I do not like for many reasons.

Unfortunately or fortunately that’s the place where he is right now working (It is not his native place but he is currently situated there). I said one day that I do not like that place, not bad every one has their own way to express their opinion about place.

I supported that by saying why I hate that place. He denied it saying that’s not the problem of place but problem lies with the media and other things which tries exploring things...


THINK WHICH PLACE IT IS????????

Ok one clue it is one of metro's in India IT HUB. You must have got by now. Where cost of living is very high compared to all metro (this is second clue).

He is one very health cautious (which is not true) he takes lunch and dinner properly very often. If he takes it might be because of his friends’ lives on junk food all the time like me. He is studious like me (we will put a small prayer for his exams which are coming up). He is so nice who never tries to hurt anyone he hates doing that. He tries helping everyone which ever way it is possible for him. He likes going on long drives (alone). He has one more hobby photography. Nice to know this person na ...

As I explained about my friend I am sure you all must be having many more friends and many more debates also we now has only one debate hope that continues to be only one ......

I WISH HIM ALL THE SUCCESS IN HIS LIFE......

I feel we all have freedom to have our own choice to like or dislike anything anywhere. It is needless that it should match with your own people's likes. It could be a friend if it is friend it is always good that we know each other so well where that person will understand us why we have that in mind and it varies if it is family it is all the more easy because they know you much better than anyone . We are all individuals so we have likes also which has their own base.

Some one has written to me in a comment that life is not so simple as you have explained and all that and he has also mentioned that rejection is something which is hard to accept.

Rejection in any form is hard to digest. The rejection could be in professional life or personal life in any form I might be getting rejected for anything is sad but positive edge of it is we have learnt a lesion there and that is of a greater value to us .

Try to remember one thing this should not be your base to judge or do anything. When I saw a girl crying because she was rejected for a marriage proposal I shouted at her. To day she is a successful person in her professional life but she is still unmarried she is not that old I have seen many cases in my life where people try to get satisfaction from some other thing.

If for example marriage , all guys want good looking fair girls where will dark completion girls will go we are forgetting one thing here that life is not going to tell us anything related to beauty finally both should lead a happy life that should be a priority.Let us just give a thought to it marriage is an ultimate thing for both the families. Many marriages are successful but there are initial hick ups in all relationship. If we are matured enough life will be smooth.

IT IS THE WAY ONE TAKES AND THINKS ABOUT LIFE .BE SPORTIVE THERE IS STILL HOPE.... HE IS OUR ALMIGHY

TEMPER

Temper is something which makes life miserable. Loosing temper is something which no one would like that to happen. When I was small used to see a person who looses temper on people for small things he used to scold people a lot. I literally used to curse him for that.

U know to my shocking I still see many people around who loose temper . I realised taking deep breath when he /she is in bad phase works wonders but one thing every one will feel they should not be disturbed when they are in that state of mind only that person will know what’s happening with him/ her obvious it is no one knows.

When we shout at people, normally people think that we are yelling at them with out any reason we should realize that the person who is shouting or wanting something is not mad to yell at someone else with out any reasons. I won't say thats correct all the time but sometimes it happens occasionally that unnecessary some one becomes a bakra (gets the blame) in that situation where the person has nothing to do but will have to phase with out any reason.

Generally no one wants to shout or loose temper I myself feel I should not shout at anyone. Always I pray GOD before leaving my home that I should be calm and things should be fine with me now .But unfortunately things happen sometime .

Basically temper is very bad we got to realize it and now that this asan's and other things like meditation are helping people a lot lets try out something like that to lead peaceful life which is very short..........

COMPROMISES

compromises is such a strong word which makes us feel as though we are sacrificing something for the other person but in reality that gives us a satisfaction.

Had an time to chat with a person who first told me that he was married and later started saying we are planning to take part ways first of all it was shocking to hear something like that but one thing I did not realize why at all he is sharing with me in the first meeting itself it was not face to face online chatting.

Still tried convincing as though I know everything about them and one thing I asked him to give his wife's number and he denied there I thought he was making up stories but still I felt he was genuine anyhow.

I feel life is all about compromises and adjustments we will never get what we want at the first instance and we have to learn how to live life with out that some might with draw and some finds way out for that also. Those who never give up are very strong there are very few like that. But believe me I have experienced in my own life the sweetness of adjustments. GOD will bless us more and more if we understand one thing that he who made us will never forsake at any case. So leave the entire burden on him.

Do your karma here and leave the rest to him let him do everything for us. We never do that we start dictating terms to GOD also which is very wrong (even I do that) I keep asking GOD I want this I want that in that run we forget one thing he knows when and what we want in life and he knows how to give everything will be supplied at the right time . One should have patience which is very much required to taste the miracles in life.

Compromise gives us satisfaction that’s at the positive end never think we are doing a great thing .This is one small step to see a bed of roses in the road ahead.

This is the message for a person who has told me last night something about life he said a girl compromises 75% and guy 25% I do not know percentages .I have taken this step for my good I will be happy in life I am not doing any great thing by making this small adjustment .

INNOCENCE

We compare a baby equivalent to GOD i always love kids for that reason they don’t have selfishness and they do not have heartedness or they do not even dream to harm some one else they just live their life .The kid when she is in mom's lap her needs are simple her stomach should be full, play with mom and dad and sleep, so simple life that simplicity we find only in children.

When the kid starts growing his needs also grows his/ her's wants will also raise they need more and more. They see their friends car they cry for the same car as the friend has (it might be a toy or real car) they want the same video game which his /her friend has again this keeps growing with the age.

There is no full stop for anyone's wants and needs. We can actually live life with water food and some basic things but we want to live up to the social standards which we human beings have created unnecessary. I never thought till today why my dad did not had a car to take us out why we did not had our own bungalow to live in the answer to it must be we understood our family and my parents so well.

But for needs and wants there is no full stop even I am greedy I want this that.... Ultimately this is life that’s how we lead the life...

MEMORIES

We all had memories in life which had made a base for our thinking ability to certain extent .Memories are those which you remember for a long time it could be of any nature that leaves a print in your life. The memories could be permanent / temporary /sweet /bad /bitter memories it could be anything.

But we always fail to forget those memories are so important that make us lead day to day life .Suppose there could be an incidence or a person you come across major chunk of our society thinking power is based on that (we can not generalize anything).

in 2005 we must have tasted everything some must have had bitter some must have had sweet things all that we carry forward to the later years and try to think the same way. I have my own experiences in 2005 . I base those and try to go on which is not correct but i try doing that .I was just thinking why one have to think that ways. In telugu there is a saying "Everything which is white in colour is not milk" no it not that.

I realized at one point that it is not that no one can generalize life is all about acting according to time and situations it is not about reacting or over reacting it is just act according to situations if it clicks you are successful otherwise think it is your fate and always "BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME" .We are all GOD's creations we can not do anything, we have to just follow his guidelines he is ultimate controller.

I am sharing this because i had come across an instance where i feel it is wrong but it was so disturbing i can not explain the situation but it was so disturbing why are we not living life like human beings we are just living an animal life many a times . They do not have any restrictions at times they are much better than us i guess. 01.01.2006 gave me a situation that horrified me and really really it was painful to take things such ways. But to take it light this is life we have to lead it and it is all situational do not react or overreact this is the lesson I have learnt yesterday.

Have good smile keep your memories stored and share your memories with the rest of the world so that they might learn lesions from that.....

HELPING HANDS