KEEP UP YOUR PROMISES

We make promises in many situations some we use as a weapon to make the other person understand and trust us. But our almighty told us not to promise according to scriptures he says the same when you did not make the earth heaven you can not promise on that because you are not the owner of it.

I had two people two are from two different places one says he will never promise at all when I ask many situations I asked him to promise he said NO .But the other person promised me (like me) but he tried to keep up his promise many a times at one instance he could not. But I am confused once the second person had cancelled his employee get to gethers and friends party just to keep up his promise.

If I have to judge these two what should I say the first person is escaping or he is correct I always said in many situations not to be judgmental have one thing to say that both are correct in their own way.

I will not judge bow anyone but one thing to assess myself what i have done and a hint to all who had such situations try to avoid situations where you will land in saying NO to people we all should know how to say NO (I mean in a polished way). When we give a word we all need to be careful to make sure we keep up that there could be situations where we come across such circumstances where we can not keep up because of many reasons those should be rare but normally try to keep up our word. Which many a times acts as standard base for assessing one's personality, which is wrong but we all do it.

LIFE IS A GAME LET US PLAY IT CAREFULLY.