Tuesday, September 20, 2005

Some of My Experiences

Are we able to differentiate between wants and needs ... what are our wants and needs ? When day starts we plan things but when things won't go accordingly then we blame others blame GOD many times but one things we all know : when we plan GOD sits and laughs at us.

I wanted to know myself what are my wants and needs many a times i cold not find out my needs and wants i did many things and later when i think i was really blank did not knew what to do in life we all have needs and wants we want to see ourselves somewhere one day . Pray GOD would help each one of us to satisfy our wants and needs .

I was thinking about myself when i started life in Bangladesh the start was bad because first day that is on 28th march 2005 when i landed in ZIA INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT it is the international airport of Dhaka bangaldesh the welcome was good then we came met our boss with the tired faces and showed one hostel where there were all girls and no privacy few bathrooms which were kept unclean did not knew what to do blamed myself why did i come and all and next day was to start work and office whole day worked in setting my office and that was horrible i brought my chairs and took 10 days to set the office

I had a class mate with me all these days with me on second day was hospital inaguration Bangladesh primeminister was here for security reasons they have closed all the doors and lifts were stopped did not knew what to do from 9th level i started shouting language problem finally one security person on groud floor heard me and came to us and landed on ground floor the day was bad people were busy in their own work did not knew CEO said a hi to us we both sat for few hours and started walking inside and security fellow had stopped us going inside that was the third day and the journey went on now it is six months since iam here .

Met online friends i call them very often had a situation where one person asked me why do you make calls to chat friends and whole day spent in analysing what are my needs and wants there was no answer hope i would get to learn more things there were situations i shouted at people because they were talking in a language which i could not understand now iam in a position to understand life started in Bangladesh intial start was bad and i donot know when the day will come when i can see my loved once that is a need now .....there are many wants and needs which i did not tell you ....but i found after six months of boaring life in Bangladesh ....

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Sheela
How are you doing?
how is your life goin on in BD?

You have really done a very good analysis or need & want.
What i feel is, in simple words, 'need' is necessity and 'want' is luxary.

Last but not least, we know each other(not completely, but couple of times we had very good chat on skype).Hope to catch you soon again :) .

with lots of love & good wishes
your friend

( Sorry by mistake i posted this comment for your previous blog )

sheela said...

Thank you very much for making an attempt to read and analyse my experiences and your comments were really good as it was posted in a wrong write up it is not a problem as i know what you are talking all about i know what you wrote and thanks try to mention your name next time so that i know who is reading what ever iam writing ...

thanks once again

Anonymous said...

you are most welcome :)

Anonymous said...

it is very nice to see and read what ever u wrote ur experiences and all i will only say that ur good thats all but u always wont call all the chat friends i know that

sheela said...

wow thanks a lot ,
what do you mean by calling chat friends .. i have many chat friends who are good and please do tell me who you are


sheela

Anonymous said...

i am one of your chat friend who is not good at all

Anonymous said...

i am first time seeing this kind of page. U r so expressive in writing. Every day is not Sunday. After evry sunday there is a bright Cheerful Monday.
Cheerup baby.